COME AND GET IT

No there is nothing more annoying than having somebody rip your heart out. You get all excited and decide to look forward to a promise.

Yep, so fun it is. And so very cruel. Well if you are the person getting the shaft. If you are the person doing the pain, great.

Now I don't mind so much when I have a chance to dole out this blessing on others. It does give me a joy.

But I sure don't love it happening to me. Nope that never works. Which is why I do my best to not fall victim to this.

It normally is more likely to happen when you are in the process of being in need. Yeah, that is the worst time.

And with the ones who truly love to make this their hobby even more so. For they have a predator's nostrils.

And they will be sure they don't let you see their real nature. Just dangle it out there where it can seem like they are a nice person.

Sort of a trap lying behind a smile. And if they use it right, no problem, they will move in for the kill.

Only you can be sure there will be no mercy. Yep, that doesn't fit into the concept here, just more blood.

Now for me the important part is recognizing such situations. Never allowing yourself to think you are safe.

Which is a nice way of saying watch out. That Mr. All Smiles coming your way could be a snake.

A few helpful suggestions in that regard. First be aware the more the person talks about being loving and caring it means the more they are planning something.

If they seem generous, watch your pocket book. If they speak of being a devoted family person be sure you know they will try to seduce your spouse.

Basically, whatever they say, the opposite is most likely the truth. And that does make things easier.

Just be careful. And then you won't have to end up a human lollipop. Those just end up getting consumed.

Beware and be happy.