ACTUALLY

This is one of those grab the throat comments. Not to be taken lightly or ignored in any way.

Somebody prepared to say this knows they are holding a pistol with a bullet having your name. And you know the person does plan on squeezing the trigger too.

So best you can do is duck. That's right throw them off so they end up missing. Or give them a better target.

Now that might sound cruel, but heck that is no big deal. I mean people can enjoy being victims.

Well you might have to entice them a little. Make it sound like a good thing. But then it is hard to always be convincing in that regard.

However, with practice and the right application of guilt it can work. Heck with the right practice you can even get them to volunteer too.

There is something very satisfying in that regard. Yep, I will admit that I find it a good and rewarding effort when that happens.

Just come away feeling that special joy from knowing you performed a service to your fellow man. My interpretation naturally.

And the best part is being able to savor when this is properly timed. Oh yes that is the critical element.

You have to approach people who are in the mood. Not at a time when they are stressed out or defensive.

More at times when they are extra greedy. Then they really are more prone to listen to the sound of actually.

If worked correctly it is a wonderful dagger. You stab them right in the middle of their dreams.

Now that is so effective. Providing the really have dreams. And some people do not have the best dreams.

Oh they will imagine crazy stuff, but never realistic things. Now you might think dreams are not real.

But that is the whole point. You should be able to imagine things you could actually accomplish with effort.

And that is the key to this. You got to build up the heart to dream then you can stab it to bleed it dry. A good practice for when you have that special person you hate more than any one else.