YOU'LL BE HAPPY WITH

Advice can be a good thing. Providing the person is not insane. And I have known my share of those.

Funny thing is they never have a clue they are nuts. They think they are normal. Which makes it even worse.

Because they most of the time have friends who are nuts also. So they have no one to tel them they are in need of help.

And what makes it worse is that they never even find out most of the time. So they just keep plotting along imagining they are cool.

This never ends up with them being the least bit credible in terms of advice. And if they are some stranger it is even worse.

This is when they have that chance to leave a first impression on you. Which is always other than truth if it is aided by references.

Most of the time this doesn't end up being a disaster if they happen to just be slightly nuts. Then they don't do you much harm.

But if you are lead to some conclusion that this person is truly helpful, then you based some major decision on their information. Only to find out later it sucks.

Well what can one truly say in such situations? Oops is nice. Better than some options. But not always.

Then you end up having to add them to your list of not again. That really sucks. Because it never translates into success.

Oh it sounds wonderful for a while. But in the end you just learn to regret it. Something you just have to decide is some learning experience.

I will admit that it is nice to like have the chance at times to be able to try different things. So when they recommend something different I do find the encounter interesting.

Well providing I don't get hurt in the process. Painful moments do not bring smiles. Nope, not on the recommended list.

But tomorrow is a great time to start over. And without the benefit of these experts that were crazy.

Oh well that is the part of life I will always file under learning experiences. And it even includes a cookbook.

One containing recipes I pass on to my enemies.