CRY FREEDOM, DON'T WIMPER

Okay, if you got a gripe about the lose of your personal freedoms, then go ahead talk about it. But please don't whine.

Complaining to me involves a certain degree of logic. Meaning you have an actual valid reason for your being unhappy.

And in addition you actually have a capacity to express it in a way that makes sense and gives your complaint some validity.

What I hate is when you have to deal with somebody who feels like they have a complaint, but honestly don't have any actual ability to do other than ramble. It does not amuse.

Now what is amazing to me is that the complainers are often less vocal about their problem than the whiners. At least they are far more inclined to be decent to deal with.

But the whiners are a different issue. They are far less that fun to spend time discussing anything.

For me it is because they just don't in any way actually end up in being able to enjoy anything. That is the big problem.

What happens is that they start out wanting to gripe about one thing then it is everything. And that never makes me happy.

So it becomes one of those situations where the person is just on a campaign against what is good. They only will see the bad.

You can fix that with any kind of help. And you can't improve it no matter what you do. All you can hope is to put the person out of their misery.

However, that will be no easy chore since you can be sure you won't even accomplish that. See they really don't want there misery ended.

What they want is to be in a position to suffer. And they want you to suffer with them. Which naturally only makes me less than thrilled.

I wish there was an easy solution to this problem, but there isn't. One can expect any help in taking away the misery.

About the only thing I can do is to make the person who is a whiner end up dealing with the complainer. That results in fun.

You get to see them each say how the other is a jerk. Which means I don't have to listen to them!