CELIBACY

This is somebody’s idea of a noble occupation. They feel it works for nuns and monks and that is fine.

It is nice my choice. Nor will it ever be. Sorry, but the idea of living without some bed warmer just doesn’t cut it.

Now if you were talking say being unmarried and fooling around that would be different. Yeah that I can see.

We need those little options. Well I do. Marriage is a nice theory. The idea of two people living together and being happy is nice.

Now does have such a great fantasy quality. The concept of two people actually in love and staying that way for a long time.

Course that is not reality. Wish it was. I think it may work for those who learn a way to fake it real well.

But for most I think they just get pissed off behind the doors and then run off to where they can try and find fun. And not get caught.

Now that is the part that I really find the most important. See I do wonder if that holds true with the celibate types too.

Like say not getting married, but indulging in a little fun. Maybe you don’t know a way to make this happen for sure.

That can be a problem. So you end up getting creative. And that can lead to mistakes. Because it is energy.

And anytime you have to use energy it can be exhausting. Plus say you have this silly idea about say having some commitment in a relationship.

That is always such a difficult thing. Yeah there are those who just get upset if you promise they are the only one and they aren’t.

But then you have to take time to define how it works. Which is not always easy. Some people are just not realistic.

They will be so inclined to make this out to be such a big issue. And really it isn’t. Or I say it shouldn’t be.

But that is where you have so much to look forward too. Just those times of explaining. And being inventive too.

Got to love it or at least lie about it.